Ayden Gray Asher Hue Anderson-Laking
April 28, 1999 – January 19, 2025
Funeral date: February 17th at 11 AM
Location: Greenwood Cemetery in Arcata, CA
Link to official obituary
Ayden, 25, passed away unexpectedly but peacefully in his sleep on Sunday, January 19, 2025, in Arcata, California.
Born on a cloudy Wednesday in Manassas, Virginia, Ayden was always proud of his birthplace. From an early age, he exhibited a curious spirit, great strength of character, and a fierce pride in all his efforts. He also carried a deep sense of love and empathy for those around him. He loved hard, with a whole heart. When his older brother was seriously hurt, Ayden took it as deeply as anyone. For years, he kept a watchful eye out for his brother’s safety, even to the point that it affected his brother’s ability to run and jump freely—such was Ayden’s fierce love.
Known as the A-Train from the time he played bumblebee soccer and scored ten goals in his first game of the season, Ayden brought that same energy and spirit into everything he loved. Music was his greatest passion. He received his first guitar (a ½ size classical) from his dad on his fifth birthday, though it mostly served as a drum and a makeshift air guitar. At 14, his dad gave him a steel-string acoustic guitar, and this time, Ayden took to it like a fish to water. Music became his refuge, his medicine, his way of crafting a world as beautiful as the one he imagined. To listen to Ayden play was to be transported—his music could take you somewhere else entirely.
A gifted musician, Ayden played most stringed instruments, as well as the piano, but the guitar was his true love. He recorded extensively and played with extraordinary musicians who became his closest friends and adopted family. Ayden left behind a wealth of music that will continue to be cherished. A catalog of his music and a biography of his life will be coming soon.
Ayden was also an avid reader and found deep meaning in the written word. His favorite book, Stranger in a Strange Land, spoke to both his aspirations for his own personal experience and his belief in human potential—what a person could become if given the right space to grow. He loved kind people, different cultures, and the beauty of life beyond the familiar. He spent six weeks traveling down the west coast of India, from Mumbai to Goa, to Kerala, and to India’s southernmost tip, embracing new experiences with open arms and an open heart.
A quiet but firm believer in Jesus, Ayden lived his faith through his music and the people he loved. He spent many evenings sharing his truth, but more than anything, his faith permeated his actions and gave him great hope for the life to come.
Ayden is survived by his father, Charles; his mother, Micha; his older brother, Jahkota; his older sister, Anjah; his younger sisters, Ryah and Ameriah; his younger brother, Dylan; his youngest sister, Lena; and stepmother, Stacey. He is also survived by many family members, friends, and loved ones whose lives were touched by his music, his love, and his unforgettable spirit.
A funeral service will be held at 11 AM at Greenwood Cemetery in Arcata, CA, where Ayden’s ashes will be interred. Following the service, there will be a private Celebration of Life for family and friends, which is RSVP-only at AydenGrayMatters@gmail.com.
Additionally, a separate Celebration of Life will be held in Reno at a later date (without ashes or burial). Details for the Reno gathering will be shared as they become available.
Ayden’s music, his love, and his spirit will live on in all of us. Though his time here was far too short, he left behind a legacy of love, passion, and beauty that will never fade.
Ayden’s passing was unexpected, and we are asking for support to help cover the costs of his funeral and memorial service. The costs of honoring Ayden are mounting, and he deserves a shaded plot and a beautiful headstone for his final resting place. If you are able, please make a donation to help cover Ayden’s funeral and memorial expenses.
100% of donations will go directly to Ayden’s funeral and memorial costs.
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